# 43

; am I good enough? Recently I realise that I’ve been asking myself this question many times. Not just myself, I’ve been asking many people this question as well. As I took someone’s place in a dance competition, I constantly wonder if I am really good enough. But to be honest, all the self doubt…

# 42

; when I knew that I’m bound to leave I started becoming overly sensitive when people I want to go out with, just don’t have the time. It’s like in my mind, I have a time bomb that is constantly counting down. And because of that persistent reminder, I get so frustrated when they can’t…

# 41

; what we really need As technology slowly takes over humanity, I think that we need to remember what we really need in life. Why is it that the person online and the same person offline are two different beings? Why is it that we can blame others for not standing up for others, yet…

# 40

; Should I love or hate my face? On my way out of the country last Saturday, I was looking out of this 7-seater car from the last window. I saw a really nice car as we drove past it and a few moments later, the driver drove right next to ours with his windows…

# 39

; talking things out The thing is, I’ve always been afraid of confronting or fighting with people. But recently, I ‘fought’ with my best friend of 8 years. I got pretty pissed, she found out and she confronted me about it, and we talked things out. And when we were talking things out, I realised…

# 38

; conflicting feelings I know what is right, I know what is wrong. I know how you feel, but I just can’t play along. I need to know, I need to choose. What’s right for me, and not what’s right for you. I know this is selfish, but you were too. You prioritised others before…

# 37

; my constant need for affirmation? I realised that I constantly seeking for encouragement or approval, no matter what I’m doing. I am afraid that I am doing something wrong all the time. Can I be angry? Can I be happy? Can I be sad? Can I say this? Can I do this? These thoughts…

# 36

; why I’m not suited for nursing I just recently graduated with a Diploma in Health Sciences (Nursing), but I don’t think that I am suited for nursing, though some may say otherwise. Here are some reasons why. 1. I take things to heart easily. Though I know that patients act ‘that way’ because they…

# 35

; unlucky? Today, as I was leaving the mall, I saw a plastic bag on the floor. And a few feet further down was a clothing item. At first I thought that an aunty who just walked ahead had dropped it. I was contemplating on whether I should shout out or pick the item up…

# 34

; have I found “the one”? I’m pretty sure that this question plagues more than one mind. No matter if you are single, attached or married, there are times when this question just pops up in your mind. There have been various concepts or theories, on how you can tell whether the person you have…

# 33

; showing appreciation and love If you know me personally, you know that I’m not really someone who expresses my feelings very well. I seem to always do/ say the wrong things at the wrong time. This results in many people misunderstanding my true intentions. In fact most people do. That’s why my preferred way…

# 32

; feeling stuck Have you ever felt like whatever you did was just not right? Recently I feel like that most of the time. I feel like I’m doing not enough. Like I’m not putting enough effort. I am burned out. I sleep and wake up feeling the same, like I never slept at all….